I AM MILITANT

“Control your temper, for anger labels you a fool.” Ecclesiastes 7:9

I can fight for what’s right without losing control.

We live in a world where the right to fight for what’s right looks different depending on who you ask. Some are in full support of the political leaders of their country. Some are radicals for God’s word. Some are champions for the minority group, whatever that minority might be. God give us free will and the right to choose how we act and react in any situation. And while it makes us feel good to choose, it does not exempt us from the consequences of those choices, whether they be good or bad. Why am I talking about this? Because when we talk about Anger, I want to be sure that we address that all anger is not bad. When we start talking about human rights there is so much to be angry about because the access to and availability of basic fundamental human rights is not equal… and that makes people angry.

I know it makes me angry. Watching the injustices of the world continue to impact people who are almost helpless against it with only my two hands, the few coins in my pocket (your girl is NOT rich, ok?) and my mind can be infuriating. But what’s worse than being unable to do more? Being considered dangerous or insane because of your anger. Now you can’t control what others think of you, let’s be clear on that. But you can be careful, considerate and conscious as you move forward in your militance. I hope these affirmations help you with that!

Affirmation 1: Assertive is not automatic aggression. You can stand your ground firmly without becoming aggressive. You do not have to take disrespect, dishonor or rudeness with a grain of salt. But be careful not to get belligerent when dealing with those actions from someone else. Assertiveness means communicating that you mean business. Aggression communicates danger, and people move differently when they think they are in danger. So be mindful of that.

Affirmation 2: Don’t be afraid to explain. When something makes you angry and militant, don’t be afraid to talk through what your feeling so it’s not misconstrued. If you take the time to explain your feelings to the ones around you it gives them a glimpse into your mind. Now I’m not saying this action will be well received by everyone, but when talking gives you the opportunity to make allies and not enemies… I say it’s best to go for it. The most powerful weapon you have is communication. Use it well.

Affirmation 3: Whenever you can, choose peace. I’m not a radical, ready to do damage at every wake and turn. But I’m also a realist who knows that peace doesn’t always do the trick. Sometimes you have to stir the pot to get people excited for the cause, or to make your opponent see the seriousness of your position. But when peace is possible, don’t think your part in this battle is wasted.

Fight against injustices, friends. Stand up for what you believe in and don’t be afraid to get angry. Just be careful what you show. I love you, and I’m always rooting for you. Keep conquering daily!